Ditto, what she said. Big hug to you Sweetie, both of you.
Funny thing Gojira said to me not too long ago....
Mom, Hubby & I were reading that for every year you are in a cult it takes 3 months to recover. So we were just adding it up and we've discovered that out of everyone in our family its going to take you the longest. I believe it was 12 years. So basically, I'm so screwed up, that I'll never be normal again. Which is fine, because I never really grew up anyway and just want to have fun.